When you’re dealing with a vindictive or desperate partner, it can be frightening to go up against them in a divorce or child custody case not knowing what they may throw your way—especially when the information isn’t always true.
It’s important, however, to handle yourself in a calm and collected manner. Here are a few tips to follow if you think you may find yourself in a similar situation.
1. Keep excellent records. If someone is going to make false accusations in a court of law, the best thing you can do is prove them wrong—and have the evidence to back it up. Take notes surrounding any interaction with your soon-to-be-ex spouse in a journal, and be sure to back it up digitally should anything ever happen to it. If you communicate with them online, take screenshots and save messages or emails.
2. Try not to show your true feelings. While we know it’s no fun to hear others talk about you in a disparaging way, it’s important to not “give in” or react to the claims. In the heat of the moment, it’s easy to say things you don’t mean and that may lend themselves to exactly what claim is being said about you. Remember, anything you say in court can (and likely will) be used against you.
3. The law is on your side. Remember, it’s not a short game—but a long one. The beauty of having your case heard in court is that the truth will prevail—and when someone is making false accusations against you, they will eventually be found out and evidence presented against them.
4. Get expert legal help. You need someone standing next to you who can advocate for your best interests—as well as the best interests of your children who may be involved in the divorce or custody problem. An expert attorney also has experience in handling false accusations and can help you remain calm during a court case.
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If you’re facing false accusations or suspect you need the expertise of an experienced Michigan attorney at your side in an upcoming court case, we’d love to be here for you. Contact our law firm today to learn more and schedule your free, no obligation consultation.
We look forward to helping you in whatever way we can.