No matter how far you try to distance yourself from your ex, if you are in some kind of joint custody your ex might be manipulating your child. Manipulative behavior is trying to change someone else’s behavior or perception of another person through indirect, deceptive, or underhanded tactics. In this blog we will be going over what to do if the other party is unfit to take care of a child.
Your Action Plan Dealing with Parental Manipulation
When you find out that there is manipulation between the other parent and the child,you should not directly confront the other party or try to call it out by yourself because you will be facing denials and drama from your ex. Manipulation can be harmful towards the child’s mental health and your relationship with your child. The first thing you should do is collect evidence and keep a record of everything. Take photos, videos, writing, whatever can help prove your side of the story. This evidence can be used in the court of law. The court looks at what impacts the child, not the parent. So if your child is any kind of danger then that would mean the other party is unfit for parenting. If things are impacting you the court will not care, it’s about the child’s well being.
A parent is unfit for custody when they are engaged in illegal activity; if they are breaking the law then they will be seen unfit for custody by the court. If there is a history of criminal activity whether it’s drug use, speeding, or other illicit activity then it would show the judge that the parent cannot take responsibility for being a caregiver.
If you think your child is in harm’s way then immediately call the police. These situations can be complicated and it is best to consult your lawyer. If you contact your lawyer then they will be able to appropriate a motion that wil;l be filled so the court can set up ground rules and help you and your child. When the court is deciding to modify child custody they will be looking at 12 factors of the child’s best interest. Do not allow the varied terminology to trick you into thinking that the best interest standard is abandoned when seeking modification of the child custody arrangement. Unlike the modification of spousal support, the court uses more specific rules and standards when dealing with child custody. If you believe that your ex spouse is an unfit parent for your child, contact our attorneys at Goldman and Associates now. They will be able to handle your case and make sure your child is in the right hands. There are many factors when it comes to modifying child support but there is always a way to get the more fair outcome.
These types of cases require a professional to help guide you and direct you to a place to get the best outcome that you desire. If you need more information regarding child custody in The State of Michigan contact Goldman and Associates Law Firm. At Goldman and Associates, our attorneys are experts in family law and they will thoroughly examine all aspects of your custody matter. With the best lawyers in Michigan, Goldman and Associates takes each and every case very seriously and gives you the best outcome you desire.
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