It is hard when you share time with a child after a split. It can be very hard if your ex keeps canceling visits. You wonder if this is fair to your child. You also wonder if this can change who the child lives with. This blog answers the question: [Can You Get Custody If Your Ex Has a History of Canceling Parenting Time?](YT VIDEO LINK PLACEHOLDER) This is a real problem that judges see. My name is Akiva Goldman. … Read More →

Why This Question Matters: When parents split up, many wonder if their kids can pick who they live with. It is a hard time for everyone. Knowing the rules can help families. This guide will explain how Michigan courts look at a child’s wishes. Do Kids Get to Pick Who They Live With? The Short Answer: No, young kids do not get to decide where they live. Parents make choices for them, like what medicine they take or what school … Read More →

Making the Best Choice for Your Child: When parents decide to live apart, one of the biggest questions is about the child. Many people wonder if sharing the child’s care, known as joint custody, is the right choice. My name is Akiva Goldman, and I am a lawyer in Michigan. Our firm helps families with these hard questions. We will explore this in our video, Is Joint Custody Always the Best Option? What Does “Joint Custody” Mean? Sharing Decisions: Joint … Read More →

Why This Matters: Many parents worry. They worry about who their child will live with after a breakup. Are you a stay-at-home parent? You might wonder if this hurts your chances. We will talk about this big question. We will see what judges look at. You can watch our video to learn more. What Does a Judge Think of a Stay-at-Home Parent? Parenting at Home: Many people today parent at home. This is not the same as working at home. … Read More →

Why This Question Is Key: Asking for more time with your child is a very big step. Many moms and dads wonder if they can do this alone to save money. This choice can change your life and your child’s life in big ways. It is smart to know the risks before you decide. Can I Ask the Court for More Time With My Child By Myself? What the Court Lets You Do: Yes, the court in Michigan lets you … Read More →

A Tough Spot for Parents: It is very hard when your child says they do not want to see your ex. You feel stuck in the middle. This guide helps you know what to do. It explains the rules and what is best for your child. What If My Child Says “No” to Seeing My Ex? A Common Problem: Many parents face this. Your child, maybe 11 or 12 years old, says they will not go. They refuse to see … Read More →

Why Holiday Plans Matter: Holidays are special times for children. But when parents live apart, deciding where the child spends the holidays can be hard. Having a clear plan helps stop fights and makes the holidays happy for your child. Not having a plan can be very stressful for everyone. Why Do Holidays Cause So Many Problems for Parents? Old Habits: Many families have habits for the holidays. You might always have Christmas Eve with one side of the family. … Read More →

Why This Matters: When parents live apart, they need a plan. This plan helps them raise their child. Part of this plan is about holidays. Some parents wonder if they can make a rule to stop holiday travel. This can seem a good way to stop problems. But it is a big rule. Let’s talk about what this means for you and your child. What Is a Parent Plan? A Plan is a Contract: Think of your parent plan as … Read More →