Divorce is a complicated and emotionally exhausting process that can make even the calmest person lose their temper. A divorce is never pleasant, but it doesn’t mean that you must anticipate your soon-to-be-ex to physically or verbally abuse you during the divorce process. When a spouse’s rage escalates beyond normal frustration and becomes abusive or harassing, the other can take measures to ensure that such behavior does not occur again during or after the divorce.
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Learn more about domestic violence in Michigan.
Defining Domestic Violence in Michigan
Leaving an abusive spouse is a difficult choice, even if it is the necessary one. Not only do you have to cope with the fact that your marriage is over, but you also have to worry about how your husband will react to the news.
When a relationship breaks down, domestic violence can escalate. You must take safety precautions before initiating a divorce. Your local domestic violence organization can assist. Domestic abuse is more than just hitting. It can take many forms, including:
- Threats
- Stalking
- Isolation
- Intimidation
- Sexual assault
- Physical assault
- Emotional abuse
- Control of money
Abusers use these methods to obtain and maintain power and control over a person. Keep records of any proof of abuse both before and during the divorce process.
Filing for a Divorce from a Physically and Verbally Abusive Husband in Michigan
In Michigan, filing for divorce is a rather uncomplicated process. Since Michigan is a “no-fault” state, no evidence is required to support a divorce petition. The person filing for divorce must demonstrate that they have lived in Michigan for at least 180 days before filing and 10 days in the county where they intend to file.
If your spouse lives in another state, you can still file in Michigan, albeit the opposing party will have a longer time to respond. If no kids are involved, the divorce is granted within 60 days. When there are children, the divorce is granted after six months.
Domestic violence is a major issue. It can affect several aspects of your divorce, including custody and parenting time. You should seek legal advice if your husband has been emotionally, physically, or verbally abusive to you. Local agencies for victims of domestic violence may be able to assist you in locating an attorney.
If you are married to someone who has abused or tried to hurt you, you should consider requesting a PPO from a judge. You can ask a judge to prohibit your spouse from visiting your house, hurting you, threatening you, or contacting you.
Seek the Counsel of a Goldman and Associates Michigan Divorce Attorney
If you have experienced or are presently facing domestic abuse, contact Goldman and Associates for legal advice. Aside from advising you on the legal issues of your case, we can also direct you to any appropriate services that can provide you with assistance. To schedule a free consultation, please call us at 248-590-6600 or make an appointment here.