No one ever believes it’s going to happen to them, but statistics don’t lie—today, nearly half of all marriages end in divorce.
If divorce happens to you, it’s a time to restart. At our law firm, we’ve helped many clients through their divorces only to see them thrive when the process is all said and done.
We want the same for you! Check out these helpful tips for beginning your new life after a divorce.
1. Remember who you are. In a marriage, it’s easy to lose a sense of who you are and adapt to what your partner wanted you to be. Now is your chance to get back to your roots and discover what you truly want in life and a relationship, while being your happy, healthy self.
2. It’s OK to grieve. Did you know that getting a divorce is one of the most stressful life experiences a person can go through second only to the death of a spouse? If you don’t properly grieve, you’ll bury harsh emotions and resentment that can make you angry. Allow yourself the time you need to “let go”.
3. Get a therapist or life coach. This will help you set yourself up for success in life and potential relationships following your divorce. A therapist or life coach can work with you to help you get over any resentment or negativity manifesting itself in your life post-divorce. They can also help you understand what your children may be going through, should you have them.
4. Try something new. This could be as simple as taking an art class or making new friends. It’s common for a divorce to leave you feeling anti-social, but do your best to fight those feelings and put yourself out there.
5. Most importantly, forgive. While this is definitely the hardest part of any divorce and starting over, it’s necessary. Remember, this isn’t something that’s going to happen overnight—you’ll need to work through forgiveness and learn to accept what’s happened in your life. You’re human, and so is your ex.
Get Help From a Michigan Divorce Attorney
We’d love to learn about your situation and how we can help you through the divorce process should you be seeking a trusted lawyer. At our firm, we have more than four decades of experience helping clients just like yourself.
Discover the Goldman & Associates difference—contact us today to schedule your free consultation. We look forward to hearing from you.