Whether it’s been on your mind for years or yourself or your partner is just now considering it, divorce should never be taken lightly.
Sometimes, divorce feels rushed into. If you’re struggling with whether or not divorce is right for your relationship, we want to help. Before filing paperwork to begin the process, ask yourself if you’ve done all you could to save the relationship.
Here are five things to consider.
1. Come up with a plan of action. Instead of moping around or panicking, it’s time to focus on what you can do. First and foremost, you’ll need to come up with a plan of action which might include some of the steps below.
2. Don’t play the victim. Whether you’re the partner who initially sparked the idea of divorce or you feel you’ve been blindsided, it’s important to not play the victim. Remind yourself of the good qualities you bring to your partner and yourself. Have gratitude for yourself and your partner.
3. Uncover what needs to change. Whether you feel you’ve just “lost that lovin’ feeling” or you need to do some digging and reflection, deciding what needs to change for you both to remain in a happy, healthy relationship is key. Try not to focus only on what the other person needs to do, but what you can do as well.
4. Be confident. It’s important to believe in yourself whether you’re facing divorce or any type of stress in your life. If you know that you deserve love and happiness, it will find you or come back to you.
5. Consider counseling. Talk to a marriage counselor either by yourself or ideally with your partner. Some people benefit from both individual treatment and couples’ therapy.
Is It Time to Let Go?
If you’ve done all you can to stop your divorce from happening but believe there’s no saving your relationship, we understand the position you’re in and we’d love to help.
Contact our practice today to schedule your free, no obligation consultation with our expert Michigan family law attorneys today.
We can’t wait to help you get through this trying time and set up your future for success.